Just Passing By

Started reading  Fear & Trembling yesterday. I have profuse regard  for Kierkegaard's torment ; here is a dedicated writer. Not long ago , at the back of the village church, where they stock exhausted  paperbacks for 50p, I invested in The Journals of Kierkegaard 1834-1854 ; small outlay  for someone to turn to so often, that the hoary cover has fallen off. The anguish  of being a wordsmith. In 1843, the year F&T was published, Kierkegaard ponders : " The hardest trial of all is when a man does not know whether the cause of his suffering is madness or guilt. "  

Posted   pictures yesterday to a magazine that is publishing an article I sent-in  on suffering. That gives me until February then to complete the accompanying book; my third spiritual work. It opens doors if you can hot-wire your submission to a just-published  article. Wow, the electrifying  poetry of Alice Oswald; a dear friend has gifted me Woods etc : "Please realise, friends. Time is moving in this neighbourhood. This is Dawn, the unspeakable iridescence of all swiftness, impatiently brushing past, be quick...." from : For Many Hours there's been an Old Couple Standing at that Window . As an adventurer ;   my toes are tapping.

When we lose control, when we lose our power, when our eyes can see nothing, writes John O'Donohue (Eternal Echoes p. 173), this is how suffering makes us aware of our own inability. We hustle to make sense, as I have tried in this blog, of our understanding of failure. Of who we are . Like a lusting  man, I have returned to Thomas Merton this morning,  fingers dry as dust for insight. It is that most precious of times, the " point vierge " of the dawn;  when "creation in its innocence asks for permission to be ". The point of nothingness in the middle of being. The profound emptiness. The "incomparable point of contact with mystery." This is where suffering leads. Dawn.

..what a great title for a book. Maybe that is that is left ;  after my heavyhearted experience with the writer's colony. It has been weighing me down, forcing me , painfully , to question my (slipping ??) grip on the world .  There are two alleyways of meditation. One is the realization, as if I have been asleep, of what I have done. Here is an online gathering of kind, supportive , creative souls, and I, I in creepy contradistinction to all that I affirm, so hold dear, have reacted, almost instantly,  to their kindness in the most derogatory way. I have operated  not from a place of peace,  but with an astonishing anger that many have found  disrespectful and hurtful. I do recognize a hackneyed aspect of myself  here and it pains me. This terribly  fragile ego, this child who never fits in, this onetime worn-out somebody. No longer. Stripped naked in the recent snow though, I do not feel the cold wind on my body. Driven by  the s...

 So , there's an insight in Transactional Analysis called a "Stamp". In my efforts to improve things for my wife I have grown disheartened with  online "advocacy"  groups that substitute posting stuff on the web, for actually creating  change in the real, hard world.  I have grown intolerant of the puffed up egos that  work against real commitment. With my back to the wall, I am raring to get my book published. I don't have  any appetite to mess or be messed  about. But,it was unfair of me to burst in on Litopia ;I am so touched and moved by all the messages that I have been receiving, bearing such a large Stamp. I have received so many supportive messages; however I have upset so many more. That I regret, very much.. So apologetic, bashful, blushing: am I ?? Well no. All I have done is state my truth - a valuable and brave truth as far as I am concerned; I stand by my experience and the tender  insight that comes with...

Just like in  other online communities, the author's "colony", I have found out very quickly,   has its share of those sad, certainly  lonely  individuals,  who think it is so terribly  witty, presumably, or impressive on some hard to fathom, probably   pathological  level, to plaster serious and sensitive discussion threads with their want-to-punch-them-on-the-nose brand of shouted shallow smugness. I have no time for  this terribly  odd nastiness that appears to contaminate the online world. I was looking forward to refined  discussion with fellow authors, seriously intent on exploring our craft together. Instead I find the kind of  yah-boo  point-scoring, dripping off  the message boards  like spit,  that the rest of us grew out of in Primary School. So the learning, as elsewhere online, is to avoid most of what goes on;  those who pontificate so,  are not authors, in any sense, ...

It has been   a brave move joining an online writer's group. Writing is such a solitary occupation, to put yourself out there in front of your peers takes some doing -  terrifying...But, how stimulating !! Last night someone asked on Litopia is it okay to have 9 Points of View (POV's) in one chapter. So, going for it I wrote : "9 POV's .. tutted the Vicar's wife; that sounds like rather a lot Well said Henry that depends on your view point Sounds as you use your brains messin' up people's cats said Douglas bitterly. I think it could work well in a murder mystery plot said the policeman who was ofa credulous disposition. Oh yes that's a point said the doctor having examined his patient. Robert paled. I guess said the Russian Prince it could be factual in which case 9 POV's could be very informative, but that's not the same as being a Bolshevist. I like the idea of 9 different takes on a situation said Sir Gerald taking a firm hold of William...

Listening to Marianne Faithful on my iPod; early morning cycle ride. She sings : " ..and there were  oh so many ways for her to spend the day; she could clean the house for hours or rearrange the flowers or run naked through the shady streets screaming all the way..." I am writing a book on being a Carer. Would it be more real,  I wondered this morning ,   if I ran naked through the streets screaming ?

What is it  about those letters that I send out to Agents that is so quiveringly, shrinkingly , knee-tremblingly terrible ? Goodness sake. It's not as if I don't spend a long time  cultivating every nuance and tone, trying to convey a sophisticated air of - what...?? Arrrrgh...... My first "LP" was Hot August Night, so  I always watch, with nostalgia  ,Neil Diamond when he is on the TV;  his concert, you know,  was the best I have ever been too. Something he said though  the other night  has  just whacked  home. You wouldn't think it ,but apparently it took Neil Diamond an age to learn how to do what he does on stage. The key,  he said,  is getting to know who you are . I have these  flickering notions   of who I am as a husband, an activist for the rights of the sick and disabled, some  kind  of  blogger in the ME community - but who  am I an author? I do not know.... Even thou...